Week 3, Post 1

I use relationship-centered orientation when it comes to conflict. I like to talk things through and see what is going on and how to deal with certain situations. I like conflicts to be solved as quickly as possible and not linger around. I do not like uncertainty, which is another reason why I want conflict to be solved as quickly as possible. I think when you are speaking with someone that you are having conflict with it is crucial to know both perspectives and see where you can go from there. Listening to another person’s opinion is really important so you understand where they are coming from, and then you can let them know how you are feeling or thinking. I am satisfied with the way I deal with conflict most of the time. Most conflicts I have usually end up in a positive way, but there are also some times when things do not go my way during a conflict. I think I tend to favor relationship-centered orientation most of the time and it has worked out for me.